Learning to be alone is a precious ability! When we are young, we are also good at confiding our secrets, dreams, and sorrows to those around us. But as time goes by, we realize that no matter how many friends we have, everyone is destined to walk a lonely path. Because once you grow up, you will find that everyone begins to have their own brilliance and fatigue, their own thoughts and opinions, their own silences and defenses, their own strengths and weaknesses. No one can fully catch the other; often, your anxieties are yours alone, and others cannot solve your happiness, nor can they fully understand it. So always be prepared to face the storms alone; even the closest person can only be your support, not your crutch. People must walk through life alone, bearing stains and sins, drinking bitter wine, and seeking a way out. When the waves are crashing, may we both forge a sharpness in this solitary journey and burden that can cut through chaos and illuminate the path ahead!

Anything you lose, as long as you stay happy, will return to you in another form. Wealth is the same, as are people and things, because the energy of this world is conserved. What you lose and gain will ultimately return to balance in some form. Sometimes you think you've missed a great opportunity, but it might just be to give you space to welcome a better platform. You may think a relationship has come to an end, but please believe that it is the universe making room for you to meet someone more compatible. A blessing in disguise. Don't rush to deny when you lose something, don't be overly anxious, don't grasp too tightly; calmly tell yourself that this is not the end, but a transformation of energy. It has just taken a detour and returned to you in another way. You must believe that everything that happens is the best arrangement.

The fate that is meant to be severed, no matter how much it hurts, you must let go. Because when destiny comes, it will cut it off completely, roots and all. Do you think you can escape? How naive. We often say: when the stars rotate, the heavenly gate opens; when the years change, the earth's veins draw in. This means that many things you think are coincidences in life are actually predetermined by the heavens. Those debts that need to be repaid, those fates that need to be settled, have long been marked with red ink on the judge's pen, sketched out. Therefore, fate is like a chain; if it wants you to walk at the hour of the tiger, you will definitely not reach the hour of the rabbit. No matter how difficult the road ahead is, you must venture forth; no matter how bitter the suffering is, you must swallow it down. Because Taoism believes that the universe itself is a furnace for alchemy; if it cannot refine this stubborn stone, how can it forge the golden hairpin path?

The five most important things to remember on the journey of life: First, stop worrying about the past. The past is gone, and you have no power over it. The reason the past can hurt you is that you keep revisiting it over and over again. Second, don't worry about the future. The future hasn't happened yet; it is unknown. Worrying about the future will only steal your peace in the present. Live in the now, at this moment, because your power is right here. Third, stop relying on others for your happiness. Others can add color to your life, but they cannot make you whole. Making yourself happy is your own responsibility. Fourth, don't underestimate your inner strength. Give yourself some affirmation. That strength has always been within you, and it is still there now. Fifth, stop comparing. Comparison is the fastest way to destroy confidence. You are not "behind"; even if you seem different from others or certain things, you are not "behind". You are on a different path, and that is perfectly fine.

Life is good precisely because it is meaningless, allowing each of us to assign our own meaning. To live is to seek mirages of happiness in a desert. Then, in the barren land, to bloom with flowers of hope.

In a relationship, you should be open and honest, without hiding anything. Say what you like directly, and don’t hold back on what you dislike. If you’re angry, tell the other person why; if you’re jealous, don’t pretend to be magnanimous. If you want something, just ask for it, and if you make a mistake, sincerely apologize. You can be shy, but never be twisted; the worst thing in a relationship is to leave problems to time. Love doesn’t have a divine perspective; if you don’t express your grievances, the other person will never know. Don’t play guessing games, don’t be sarcastic, and don’t say one thing while meaning another. Every day of love is too precious to waste on meaningless tests. The meaning of love lies in illuminating each other, becoming each other’s safe haven and charging station, bringing light to ordinary days and offering a shoulder during tough times. Good love is about two people redeeming and supporting each other, knowing that no matter how far they go, there’s someone behind them. A truly healthy relationship is when both people can be their authentic selves without pretense or forcing it. Those who always think "it will get better later" often end up being the last straw that breaks the relationship. The meaning of being together is never about grandiose vows, but about having a shoulder to lean on when you’re tired, hands to guide you when you’re lost, and someone who remembers to buy you your favorite coffee on ordinary days. So, treat the one you love gently, speak kindly, because finding someone who allows you to be completely yourself is one of the rarest fortunes in this world.

The essence of confidence is extensive learning, thorough research, continuous repetition, constant practice, and ongoing reflection, thereby establishing a stable core within oneself and learning to love oneself in the process of overcoming adversity.

A person only feels that expressing themselves is worthwhile when they are truly understood. If you can accurately interpret 80% of what someone is hesitant to say, then you must have a soul resonance. If more than half of their confessions feel like playing the lute to a cow, then the sense of loneliness penetrates to the bone. In fact, we are all searching for someone who can understand the unspoken nuances, remember the words said without intention, respond to the needs that remain unsaid, and make silence comfortable. This seemingly ordinary tacit understanding actually requires a wonderful alignment to truly possess.

Why do we feel unhappy? Research indicates that having 2 to 5 hours of free time each day is associated with the highest levels of happiness. More than 5 hours can actually decrease happiness. Less than 2 hours leads to a busy life, where existence becomes a mechanical repetition, draining the joy out of life; more than 5 hours of leisure can lead to emptiness and confusion. Although we may not want to admit it, human nature is sometimes contradictory and difficult to understand.

What can make one feel unhappy? Research indicates that having 2 to 5 hours of discretionary time each day leads to the highest levels of happiness. More than 5 hours can actually decrease happiness. Less than 2 hours leads to a busy life, where existence becomes a mechanical repetition, draining the joy out of life; more than 5 hours of free time can lead to emptiness and confusion. Although we may not want to admit it, human nature is sometimes contradictory and difficult to understand.