A lot of good health is about the injuries you avoid, the food and drinks you don't consume, the bad habits you unlearn. A lot of wealth is about the foolish investments you avoid, the noise you ignore, the nice-sounding lies you see through. A lot of personal success is about the distractions you avoid, the relationships you stay away from, the unnecessary fights you skip. It's a long journey, don't waste your energy with things that won't get you closer to your goals, you will suddenly get so much luckier in life.