Men must remember that when you don't get your wife's respect, don't try to communicate, don't engage, and definitely don't get angry or sad. What you need to do is ignore and distance yourself. In this world, just because you treat someone well doesn't mean they will treat you well in return, even in marriage. Don't seek unnecessary troubles by trying to change her; it's impossible. When a woman doesn't realize she is wrong, trying to tell her will not only be useless but will also add to your own and her troubles. Understand that the only thing that can truly make a woman change is not communication or reasoning, but hitting a wall, taking the wrong path, and stumbling. Let her be; one day she will pay the price for her actions.